October 8–10, 2026

Joel & Caity

Wedding Party & Family Guide

Day-of contact

Caitlin Cullen · Blooming Hill coordinator

Please call them, not Joel or Caity, with anything on the day.

(845) 742-1176

Other contacts

Kathleen · to reach Caity

(732) 552-6309

Jason Bida · to reach Joel

(201) 803-9179

Thursday, October 8

Welcome Reception

6:00 PM

Welcome Reception

Above the Wild

416 Main Street, Beacon, NY 12508

Get Directions

Friday, October 9

Wedding Day

8:30 AM

BridesmaidsFamily

Getting Ready – Caity

Caity's Airbnb

10 Twin Lakes Road, Monroe, NY 10950

Hair & makeup for the bridesmaids, Pat, Barbara, Jill and Jaime. Everyone please be there by 8:30 AM (Barbara, Pat and Kathleen by 7:00). Individual times are listed below.

Leave by 2:10 PM · about 10 min to the farm

Get Directions

10:30 AM

Groomsmen

Optional Breakfast

We'll send the location directly to those invited.

12:00 PM

Groomsmen

Getting Ready – Joel

Joel's Airbnb

16 Church Street, Beacon, NY 12508

Leave by 1:30 PM · about 35 min to the farm

Get Directions

2:15 PM

Groomsmen

Joel & Groomsmen Arrive

Blooming Hill Farm

1251 NY-208, Monroe, NY 10950

Get Directions

3:00 PM

Family Photo Call Time

Blooming Hill Farm

1251 NY-208, Monroe, NY 10950

Family — please be at the farm by 3:00 sharp. Group photos run 3:15–3:45 on a tight schedule and need to wrap before guests arrive; the full shot list is below. Wedding party — you'll already be at the farm with Joel and Caity, and your photos are up first at 3:15. If you can avoid driving yourself, please do: carpool or take a rideshare so you're not stuck with a car at the farm when the shuttle leaves for the afterparty. Taxi numbers are at the bottom of this page.

Get Directions

3:45 PM

Guests Arrive

Blooming Hill Farm

1251 NY-208, Monroe, NY 10950

4:00 PM

Ceremony

Blooming Hill Farm

1251 NY-208, Monroe, NY 10950

Processional order is below.

4:30 PM

Cocktail Hour

Blooming Hill Farm

1251 NY-208, Monroe, NY 10950

5:50 PM

Reception

Blooming Hill Farm

1251 NY-208, Monroe, NY 10950

7:15 PM

Speeches

Blooming Hill Farm

About 20 minutes total. Start time may shift a little during the evening — lineup is below.

10:30 PM – 1:00 AM

Afterparty

The Vinyl Room

396 Main Street, Beacon, NY 12508

Reception wraps at 10:00 PM. Shuttle departs Blooming Hill Farm around 10:15 PM. Open bar until 1:00 AM, and there's food — bacon, egg & cheese sandwiches and bar snacks.

Get Directions

Friday morning · Caity's Airbnb

Hair & Makeup

Everyone please be there by 8:30 AM — Barbara, Pat and Kathleen by 7:00 for the first appointments. Times may shift a little on the day, so being there early lets anyone swap slots if needed.

Arrive by 7:00 AM

7:30 AM

Barbara

Hair, then makeup at 8:15 · with Sophie

7:30 AM

Pat

Hair, then makeup at 8:15 · with Anna A

7:30 AM

Kathleen

Hair, then makeup at 8:15 · with Anna N

Arrive by 8:30 AM

9:00 AM

Caity

Hair & makeup until 12:00 · with Sophie

9:00 AM

Stephanie

Hair, then makeup at 9:45 · with Anna A

9:00 AM

Jill

Hair, then makeup at 9:45 · with Anna N

10:30 AM

Emily

Hair, then makeup at 11:15 · with Anna A

10:30 AM

Lizzy

Hair, then makeup at 11:15 · with Anna N

12:00 PM

Nicole

Hair, then makeup at 12:45 · with Anna A

12:00 PM

Jaime

Hair, then makeup at 12:45 · with Anna N

Final touch-ups · 1:30–2:00 PM

Everyone gets a final touch-up before the artists head out, plus a signature lip color to keep — so there's no downside to going first. Sophie stays with Caity until 7:00 PM.

Before you arrive

Makeup

Come with a clean, moisturized face. Exfoliating the night before or that morning gives the makeup a fresh base and helps it last all night. Sunscreen is fine as long as it's talc-free.

Hair

Come with freshly washed, completely dry hair — no wet hair, please. The stylists can add grit if your hair needs it, so don't show up on second- or third-day hair unless you've cleared it with them ahead of time. No flat irons or other heat styling beforehand.

Friday afternoon

Photo Schedule

Group photos run in the order below — please stay close so we can wrap before guests arrive at 3:45.

2:30 PM

First look

Joel & Caity

2:45 PM

Couple portraits

Joel & Caity · until 3:15

3:00 PM

Family arrives

Be at the farm, ready to go

3:15 PM

Wedding party & family photos

Shot list below · until 3:45

Shot list · 3:15–3:45 PM

Bridesmaids

With Caity

Bridesmaids

With Joel & Caity

Groomsmen

With Joel

Groomsmen

With Joel & Caity

Whole wedding party

With Joel & Caity

Barbara O'Leary

With Caity

Patricia McLaughlin

With Caity

Bob McLaughlin

With Caity

Pat & Bob McLaughlin

With Caity

Pat & Bob McLaughlin

With Joel & Caity

Pat & Bob McLaughlin, Kevin McLaughlin, Colin McLaughlin

With Joel & Caity

Pat & Bob McLaughlin, JR O'Leary, Bobby O'Leary, Barbara O'Leary, Kevin & Colin McLaughlin

With Joel & Caity

Jill Cettina

With Joel

Joe Cettina

With Joel

Jill & Joe Cettina

With Joel & Caity

Jill & Joe Cettina, Jaime & James Ozturk

With Joel & Caity

Jill & Joe Cettina, Jaime & James Ozturk, Amy DeBellis & Zach Weissman, Robbie & Alycia Sprechman, Lindsey & James Zarwi, Sydney Sprechman

With Joel & Caity

Friday · 4:00 PM

Ceremony

James opens the ceremony with a few words to welcome everyone and a kind reminder that the ceremony is unplugged — no photos, please.

Processional order

Barbara O'Leary & Kevin McLaughlin

Joe Cettina & Jaime Ozturk

Patricia & Colin McLaughlin

Joel Cettina & Jill Cettina

Kathleen Nguyen & Justin Miller

Nicole Wells & Robert York

Elizabeth Gambogi & Jason Bida

Emily Kantoff & David Lienhard

Stephanie Joong & Robbie Sprechman

Caity & Bob McLaughlin

Friday · around 7:15 PM

Speeches

In speaking order — about 20 minutes total. Please keep to your time so we stay on schedule.

Pat & Bob McLaughlin

4 min

Jill & Joe Cettina

4 min

Jason Bida

3 min

Justin Miller

3 min

Nicole, Emily & Lizzy

6 min

Saturday, October 10

Day-After Excursion

Bus seats are only for guests who checked the excursion box on their RSVP. Driving yourself? Meet us at any stop.

10:15 AM

Bus Pickup

Downtown Beacon

10 N Chestnut Street, Beacon, NY 12508

The bus picks up in the public parking lot at the corner of N Chestnut Street and Church Street, across the street from this address. Please be there by 10:15 — the bus leaves at 10:30 sharp.

Get Directions

11:00 AM

Wine & Lunch

Magnanini Winery

Lunch is provided and every stop is covered. Dress for walking outdoors and bring a layer.

1:30 PM

New Paltz

Water Street Market

Walk Main Street, with shops and views of the Shawangunk Mountains.

3:15 PM

Storm King Art Center

A self-guided visit.

5:15 PM

Bus Drop-off

Downtown Beacon

10 N Chestnut Street, Beacon, NY 12508

All weekend

Taxis & Rideshare

Uber and Lyft both work here, but drivers are thin on the ground compared to the city — especially out at the farm in Monroe and late at night in Beacon. Expect longer waits than you're used to. Schedule rides ahead with Uber Reserve or Lyft Scheduled Rides, and save a taxi number or two below as a backup.

Monroe · near the venue

Geo Taxi

24/7

Serves Monroe, Woodbury, Harriman & Chester. Good bet for a ride from the farm.

(845) 717-8068

Monroe Taxi & Limousine 24 Hrs

24 hours

Local cab company, 25+ years in Monroe. Sedans and vans.

(845) 783-2277

Beacon

Beacon Sure Ride Taxi

Fri & Sat 6 AM – 2 AM · other days until midnight

Downtown Beacon, right on Main Street. Call ahead on Friday night — it's a small operation.

(845) 625-6422

Fishkill hotels

Hudson Valley Legacy Transportation

By reservation

Formerly 845 Transportation. Pre-booked car service covering the Hilton, Hyatt & SpringHill area.

(845) 600-4100